And then it was January…
With found garden roses, right before a wild winter storm.
Cloudy light and chilly air make roses very happy.
I pick my blossoms and reflect upon time.
How have I been writing this blog for 16 years?
So much has changed, and yet everything is the same.
As I type that last sentence I realize, not much has changed really.
Because everything is the same, but with added elements that have enhanced life in so many ways.
I pick these flowers and can almost not believe that I built a whole new garden here over the last 6 years.
(And a hidden secret garden, behind that garden, over the last 3 years.)
That was after building a garden at the country house for 22 years, which is mature and doing well.
To say that I love to garden is a huge understatement, obviously, haha.
I am always amazed that the roses are doing so well, and that some even last through winter.
But even more amazing, is that for the last 13 years, the guy below has been by my side.
Right beneath me, every single move I make.
Matty (Matisse), ferocious little guardian.
He has known all the dogs.
Baby, Miles and now Teddy.
I suppose January can be a month of reflection.
I go into the chilly garden and let out the tiniest happy sigh when I see a Katydid on the roses.
I am, in the deepest part of my heart, in my pretend world, and entomologist and horticulturist.
The vastest calling of my soul is to plant seeds and cultivate gardens, whilst marveling at all the tiny creatures.
I have a really tender love for the winter garden.
Everything seems quiet and sleeping, but if you kneel down you will see, all the microscopic sprouts of early spring pushing through the ground.
The rosemary Christmas trees await their new place in the garden
Birds hunt for seeds.
Teddy tries to steal a giant chicken wire cloche.
Everything is a plaything to him.
There are hidden fairy tale pumpkins still in the garden,
Teddy loves to eat pumpkin and assorted squash (of course pumpkin is squash) whilst I tend to my plants.
When I ask him to please, not eat that particular pumpkin, he squints his eyes.
Sheepishly telling me that I am mis-accusing him with his expression alone.
He and Matty love to rest in the giant arugula (roquette) plants.
The scientific name for a rose is Rosa.
And so, I bring in the wonderful winter Rosas, and place them with the other growing things that get to live in the big sunlit window.
I am utterly thankful for roses in winter.
And the beauty of grey cloudy dappled sunlight.
On this loveliest of January day.
Cheers with teacups to this New Year friends.
I feel lucky to get to sit here typing to you in the 16th year of my blog.
I started my blog after Christmas in 2006, on the 27th of December.
I was so eager and excited, and felt that I had sooo much to tell and share.
Luckily my archives exist, up in the navigation bar, where all those posts still live.
I feel like that same happy go lucky girl, but wiser and with a lot more gratitude.
I’ve always had gratitude a plenty, but life levels that up even more, with all of its ups and downs.
I have a very quiet and peaceful life, and I spend my time between the country house and house 2.
My life is full every day with tending garden, my dogs, creating, filling shop orders, painting, cooking, and all manner of other interests I have.
With so many others that I would love to do, I especially love writing.
On new year’s eve Teddy and Mister Lovee went to bed super early at the country house.
The Irishman, Matty and me spent the night in the tiny cottage down the garden path from the main house.
We read fairy tales and ate chocolate, and even though I am not a chocolate lover, I had the white chocolate one with raspberry inside.
At midnight, the 80’s band called Breathe was playing on Pandora, and we danced.
Then we bundled up and walked around the garden path, listening to and watching people’s fireworks in the distance.
It was a delightful way to go into the new year.
At around 45 minutes after midnight, a wild beyond words, storm rolled in.
It whipped buckets and buckets of rain for 2 days straight, with wind that made it rain sideways.
Someone’s gazebo even ended up in our yard.
Often the rain was so strong I couldn’t even see through the garden.
I love our wild winter rains because I know those poppy seeds are getting the cold they need to germinate.
After I am done typing I am actually going to go out searching for poppy seedlings, which I think I spied already.
It has been a joy to write to you here for 16 years.
To take photos and collect thoughts and ideas to type to you.
I know people say, blogs are over, how can you still write a blog?
But truly, I do not intend to go anywhere.
My blog is home.
I know I was blogging less for a time, and it was because I added a second house to the mix and needed to set up my life here.
But I feel really settled now, and I am enjoying writing my letters to you in the form of blog posts, as I always have.
From 2014 to 2019 all I wanted to do was go treasure hunting, and then more antiquing for the second house.
I had soooo much fun doing so.
I didn’t want to sit at home, I wanted to be in those old library scented, quiet aisles of the antique store.
Then in 2020, with the need to stay home more, I decided to start a second big secret garden behind the formal garden at house 2 (as you know).
And that has led me to that more peaceful, stay at home creating art and growing seeds space, that is so familiar to the last 22 years of my life.
When we purchased house 2, I transplanted so many rose bushes (about 13 out of 56, that gophers were killing) from the country house, and worked feverishly on the sad built-in planters.
Now they look like they have always been here, filled with green.
I wonder what my next big project shall be?
I sort of feel something brewing, but I can’t quite put my finger on it yet.
I can see it in my mind’s eye, and it’s filled with inspiration and joy…
I wonder what it is?
When I figure it out, I shall be sure to let you know first.
It seems I have gone down the path of digressing and babbling on and on.
So, I shall say, see you soon.
And clink with teacups to you, wishing you a lovely little year.
I truly hope that one or more of your wishes come true.
Lots of love,
With thanks for your friendship in this curious virtual land for these 16 years.
Sincerely
Vanessa Valencia ;-*
ps: Have you Seen the 2022 series called Julia on HBO max?
(About the life of Julia Child)
I thoroughly enjoyed it and found it so inspiring.
I laughed and cried and laughed.
I love anything about her though.
<3 <3 <3














How grateful I am to have stumbled onto your blog some years ago and have been following your stories, eagerly inspired. For a an old fashioned girl like me who has no social media and loves to read, blogs are my go to! So please, never ever stop 🥰 Here is wishing you a wonderful new year full of laughter and pure happiness ✨ï¸
I am so glad you have kept your blog going! It is as lovely as always!
Happy 2023! I love reading your blog and looking at all your beautiful gardens. your pups and projects! Thanks for taking the time to write about all of it.
Happy new year! Thank you for your lovely letter musings gardening crafting and creativity!!!! Love your kind and generous spirit!! Sandy
I’m happy you’re blogging more. Yours is one of my favorites because of your spirit and kind heart! Teddy is so cute. I visited with our Golden “grand dog” over Christmas. You are blessed to have such beautiful roses during winter: They are stunning! Happy New Year!
You should paint that V… Roses in vases on the window sill… Beautiful! Blogging is for me too.. Even if there are not many people reading what i write and the pictures i post.. Maybe its just for me.. and thats ok.. Hugs! deb
I hadn’t read your Secret Garden post yet, so I linked on over to that. Very inspiring! I haven’t had much luck here with Poppies in SJ, CA, but I do love it when I plant special zinnia seeds in my front yard country garden and they grow with very little to no water (and cosmos). I love to be in the front kitchen window and see people stop to photograph them, even those who come early in the morning to catch the golden hour. I feel like it’s a gift to the neighborhood and I do see extra people I’m not used to seeing walk by our home to see the flowers. So easy and brings so much joy. Your undertakings do not sound so easy, but it is inspiring!
Marrissa, I LOVE hearing that you still read blogs. That makes me so happy <3 Happy New year to you as well, with a bucket of wishes aplenty <3
Thank you Lisa, that means so much to me <3
Janet, it really touches me that you enjoy the garden and the pups, because those are two of my greatest joys <3
Thank you Sandy, I think kindred souls gravitate towards one another <3
Thank you dear Ricki, and I swoon that you have a golden grand dog, what is her or his name? I am as amazed at you that there are roses in the garden in January <3
I am very happy to be one of your regulars after all these years. I’ve sure enjoyed the tea parties and Halloween fun….and Alice in Wonderland! And the gypsy wagon and special prayers said for all of us. I can always expect to be delighted when I visit you! (I even read a book you recommended when I was having trouble riding in a car. I still have some trouble but it’s not as bad) Thanks for the fun my friend! Diane in Florida
I agree, it is fulfilling to sit and write, even if it’s just a love letter to ourselves. Maybe I should paint that 🙂 <3
Thank you Cindy, I agree with you, the zinnias and cosmos are delightful. Poppies need a little cold snap to germinate, so I make sure to have them in by autumn, so the winter rains can do their job. Early morning garden is the bestest <3
Happy 2023!
So delighted by your blog for most of those last 16 years, & excited to see your incoming, beautiful thing come to life 🙂
Barbara, thank youuuu for being here for so long <3 <3 <3 Happy 2023 🙂
I’ve enjoyed your blog for many years too. I left a longer comment but it must not have gone through. Happy blogging, Diane
I was recently lamenting the loss of the original kind of blogs. Where each one was unique and interesting because each blogger was unique. Today it is all about trends and making money. I so appreciate your lovely peaceful words and images. I always leave with such a sense of calm. You are a treasure.â¤ï¸
i’m so glad i found your blog all those years ago and so glad that you are staying around in blogland to share your gorgeous photography and wonderful words. i look forward to much more!
love & magicks
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ps… hugs & kisses to Matty & Teddy! xoxo