The loveliest little mornings…
With my sister who is visiting me for several days.
I have always loved my sister.
We laugh at the same things and understand one another in a way no one else can.
It’s only as you get older though, that you come to truly appreciate your sister.
You understand what your parents meant when they would say, one day you will thank us and understand why we gave you a sister.
You will have each other for all the ups and downs of life.
There is no one in the world who understands me and knows me like my sister, because we journeyed through life from almost the very beginning, together.
We were so different as children, but somehow, the older we get the more we become alike.
We have grown to respect and admire each other.
To need one another.
And now, we can only thank our parents.
We laugh together like no one I have ever laughed with.
The other evening, we laughed so much I had to lay on the floor and roll on my back, begging her to stop making me laugh.
I will never forget those moments.
I am a little over five years older than my sister.
I was a tween in the late 80’s, and everything I loved influenced my sister.
From music, to movies, style and more.
This is a wonderful thing because we both get nostalgic listening to the same music, and we have wonderful college memories because we lived together.
Even though at the time we didn’t realize it…
We were forging the most beautiful memory bank and friendship.
Now we have grown to have mutual respect and admiration for one another.
She loves my dogs like they are her own, she asks me gardening questions, we go antiquing and gravitate towards the same treasures where she often allows me to have the best treasure, even if she discovers it first.
We cook and bake and craft together, and we watch movies galore.
We go together with hats on, into the garden with all of our tea accoutrements.
We sit and giggle and chat.
Although we are older, with her I still feel 18, as long as we are together, we are ageless.
It’s funny how that can happen.
I am so glad I have a sister and that our relationship has flourished with age.
In the words of Jo March…
I could never love anyone as I love my sister.
We have been having so much fun with our tea parties and midnight movies.
Teddy loves her beyond measure and just wants to sit on her lap.
I flip through books as the comforting sound of her embroidery needle goes through the fabric in her hoop.
Me, my sister and Teddy are having way too much fun together.
I should thank my parents, like they said I would one day.
Clink clink to you on fancy teacups friends!
Do you have a lovely sibling story?
We will continue our delightful shenanigans for a few more days.
The rain is here and rainbows and pink skies are happening every day.
I love monsoon season where the desert meets the forest.
I hope you are more than well.
See you soon!
I must go check on Teddy and my sister now.
Love,
Vanessa
ps: The most giant rainbow yesterday…















You are so lucky to have a sister; something I never had. Enjoy every moment.
Oh Vanessa that was just the best blog post. You are so blessed to have such a special relationship with your sister. what memories you both are making and how fun to giggle in the garden with those beautiful cupcakes. My girls are also almost 6 years apart and are so so close. I love it. I really enjoyed this. Thanks for letting us see the joy you have with your sister*
deezie
i always wanted a sister for the very friendship you describe. i’m so happy for you and she that you have each other. enjoy your tea party!
love & magicks
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ps…hugs & kisses to teddy!
pps…hi to your sis!
I absolutely love your posts. Your photos, your tales, they touch my heart
Lovely!
It is such a TREAT for the eyes to visit your plot of ground here, and see all that is blooming both in your gardens and out of your teapots! I have a sister also whom I dearly love but do not get to visit with too often. She has five children and is so busy with them that I rarely have time to just lazily hang out with her much less have tea together. Thank you for all you share with us! It is a joy!
What precious memories with your sister.
I don’t have those memories with my sister, we remain very different. Though she does say she wants to come and have tea with me someday.
I love, love your teatime with your sister. It is beautiful!
I love that you can laugh together still making memories.